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January 31, 2012 2

Happy Girls

By in Family, Genevieve, Music, Video

I definitely wouldn’t call myself a “country music fan.”  That being said, there are a few songs in the genre of twang that I do admit I like.  Today, while feeding Genna applesauce at lunch and watching her smile and giggle at me from her high chair, the song “Happy Girl” by Martina McBride popped into my head.  This is a fantastic song.  It’s the type of song that makes me see the good in country: a positive message, wholesome lyrics, and belt-it-out-loud-in-your-car-with-the-windows-down-in-the-summertime worthiness.  It’s also a song that has a new meaning to me today.

I found the song online and turned up the volume.  I picked up my baby girl and held her on my right hip.  Then I picked up my sweet niece, Anna, and put her on my other hip.  Then, we sang and we danced, all three of us girls.  We were loud, we were silly, and we laughed a lot.  As we twirled and bounced around the living room, I realized the new meaning in the lyrics: all I want, the thing that matters most now, is that my girls are happy.  My own daughter, my niece, my soon-to-be-born second niece…I just want them to be happy in life.  The world can be confusing and cruel, especially to girls.  I hope that their souls break free, I hope they’re not bottled up inside, I hope they laugh when they feel like it, and cry when they feel like it.  Let the axis twirl.  Let the world try its best.  We’ll watch them go.

Today they’re happy girls, and we all know that the sweetest thing in the whole wide world that you’ll ever see, is a happy girl.

Post script – Here’s a video from today of my little happy girl:

January 14, 2012 1

A Quick Note About Breastfeeding

By in Baby Life

Nursing next to Lake Superior.

Don’t worry, I’m not going to go into details here for the sake of those of you readers who may not want to know too much information.  But, I do want to just say that breastfeeding Genna has never been easy. From the start, she had difficulty latching, had to use a nipple shield (which is a whole other story), and would fall asleep before getting enough food. Then I developed mastitis. Then we had difficulty trying to get away from the nipple shield. Then nursing anywhere but home was extremely difficult with an incredibly active and squirmy baby, distraction, and hating the nursing cover. Then her teeth started coming in. Then I went back to work and my supply dropped significantly.

But now, at over 8 months postpartum, I am happy to say that we have made it this far still nursing. Other than growing and giving birth to our beautiful, amazing daughter, this accomplishment is the one that makes me most proud. I’m not trying to toot my own horn here, but not everyone realizes how hard breastfeeding can be, and it seems odd to have a family blog that never mentions what is, in fact, one of the biggest aspects of life with a baby. And when I start getting “looks” from people when they realize I am still nursing Genna, I just have to remind myself that this is the best possible situation for our family. I know breastmilk is–in so many ways–the best start to a healthy life, and I can give it to her. And I am.

Lilypie Breastfeeding tickers

January 7, 2012 0

Genna Is Eight Months Old!

By in Genevieve

Today marks Genevieve’s “eighth month birthday” exactly, as she was born on a Saturday.  Therefore, we thought it appropriate to do a much-needed update on what our sweet girl is up to these days.

Genna is growing very quickly.  She is already wearing 12 month onesies (although they always seem to run small) and has been comfortably fitting into most 9 month-sized clothes for a few weeks.  Interestingly, we have not had to adjust her cloth diaper snaps (and thus, the size of the diaper) since she was first wearing them at around 9 weeks of age.  This means our baby is growing a bit longer than she is wide every month, and we can definitely tell by how she almost touches both ends of the changing table at the same time now!  Though she hasn’t been weighed for a while now, we’re guessing she’s somewhere close to 18 pounds, which is good, because she should hopefully be around 21 pounds by her first birthday, which would be triple her birth weight.

Happy girl at 8 months!

Happy girl at 8 months!

Along with this growth comes many new skills.  Genna has been sitting relatively well for about a month, though she still takes the occasional tumble.  Every day, though, she seems to gain more core control as she reaches for things nearby and can get upright again withoutfalling over.  She also decided to celebrate her eight months by showing us some major achievements today: she rolled from her back to her tummy numerous times (previously, she preferred to only go from her tummy to her back) today and was met with applause from her mom and dad, since this is something we have been hoping to see for a few months now.  Today she also attended our friend Kristen’s baby shower, and in her excitement about a new baby girl friend on the way, she began scooting and pushing herself all over the floor in pursuit of interesting things, like books, beads, water bottles, and the other 8 month old at the party.  She’s not yet lifting herself up on all fours, and seems to find it more difficult to go forward than backward, but we sense that those obstacles are not far from being defeated.   Hooray for a big day development-wise!

So big! But still getting used to wearing shoes.

So big! But still getting used to wearing shoes.

In the world of nutriment, Genevieve has now explored many foods beyond the basic carrots, squash, peas, sweet potatoes and pears: she also likes applesauce, bananas, avocado, green beans, apricots, prunes, oatmeal, corn, broccoli, chicken, turkey, peaches, and mangos.  She’s a great eater and is getting better and better with finger food.  Her pincer grasp is almost good enough to feed herself un-frozen peas and bits of rice crackers.  This is important, as she needs something to practice chewing with–she has her two bottom front teeth, and her two middle upper ones are just popping through now!

Working on the peas and blueberries...

Working on the peas and blueberries...

Genna continues to delight us every day with her huge grins, or pixie smiles, as Grandma Kay calls them.  She giggles and laughs a lot, and her laughs–like her burps–are quite hearty.  Just making her laugh is entertaining.  She entertains herself by chewing on her toes, but she loves being tickled and hugged even more.  We are so proud of our little girl, and can’t wait to see what the next four months bring as we journey through her first year together.

"Being 8 months old makes me happy! And so do baths!"

"Being 8 months old makes me happy! And so do baths!"

January 6, 2012 1

A Time, Quiet

By in Writing

A time, quiet,
filled with golden light.
Sunshine streaming in the window.
Breezes, soft, warm, and then cool.
Happy, gentle traffic,
vehicles pulling people to work, to home.
Same road, same lights, every day.
Change was only visible by the backpacks which emerged one warm afternoon.
The yellow buses began their dutiful service.

But for us, there was only the room, the house, the sidewalk, the trees, the sky.
A globe, smaller and more calm, in which we contentedly dwelled.
Each day we learned more about each other.
Each day we saw something new,
the face of the other ever original, ever remarkable.
The eyes, the cheeks, the arms, the tummy, the thighs, the feet,
these were it.
The most beautiful creation.  The most astonishing creature.
This body, to support that one.  This body, meant for this time.
The bedroom, the open windows, the quiet promise every afternoon,
the sleepiness settles over us.
The time will come, I knew then.

 
The time did come.
I returned to the larger world, the louder one, the faster one.

 
But those golden, quiet months hang like a drop of light,
forever.
I know that time was precious, unrepeatable, and limited.
In my heart, in my memory,
that soft existence
is what I will cherish.
This was my first-born time, my daughter’s time.

November 17, 2011 0

Genna’s First Halloween

By in Family, Friends, Genevieve

I realize this is quite late, but better late than never, eh?

For Genevieve’s first Halloween, she decided to throw a party for all her little friends.  She invited anybody she could think of who her parents knew and who had tiny tots in their households as well.  This turned out to be family members, a few old friends of Mike’s from high school, new friends from our ECFE New Parent Connection class, and some friends from college and the neighborhood.  Our home ended up having around 30 people at any point in time–with about 2/3 of those people being babies or small children.  It was a very lively party!  We had snugglers, tummy-timers, sitters, crawlers, standers, climbers, walkers, and runners.  The moms and dads were kept busy keeping up with their wee ones, especially since our home is not yet well baby-proofed.  (Side note: we can’t seem to fit any safety gates at the top or bottom of our stairs due to the woodwork.  Does anyone have any tips?)  We had a great feast of treats, thanks to everyone who brought items to share, and of course, there was a ton of candy.  The kiddos all showed up in costume to some degree or another, including a mouse, a pumpkin, a couple of superhero-type people, a ladybug, and a “very hungry caterpillar”.  Genna was a dinosaur, as she wanted her costume choice to be a nod to her former newborn self, at which time we called her “Dino Baby” due to the interesting sounds she made when she was very young.  For more on that, see this older post.

Genevieve really enjoyed herself, after she arose from her requisite nap (which she chose to begin right as the party was getting started, of course):

It seems that Halloween 2011 was a great one!

November 15, 2011 0

A Whole New World…

By in Genevieve, Video

As Genna is now six months old, she has entered a whole new world…that of solid foods.  No longer will she be only ingesting mama’s milk; now she gets to explore other options, too!  So far, she has sampled rice cereal, peas, and bananas.  You can probably guess in which of those three she was least enthused.  She’s also not a fan of the high chair so far, but seems to enjoy utensils.  Here is a little clip of Genna learning about spoons:

I have also been trying to get a start in making our own baby food.  It’s happily far easier than I thought it would be, and it’s going to save quite a nice little chunk of change.  I can buy all organic produce and make it at home for a fraction of the cost it would be to buy it from the store.  For example, a jar of organic squash baby food is usually at least 40 cents, whereas I bought a huge whole organic squash for $1 at the farmer’s market and it made about 16 jars worth.  Plus, homemade baby food fills your freezer with beautiful colors:

So far, she has been doing a great job of eating her “solids” and the clean-up has been quite minimal, too.  Now that she’s learning how to “razzle” her lips and make spittle, though, we may be in store for a bit more of a mess.  Good thing we have a bigger bib ready to go.

November 13, 2011 0

Blast from the Past: Good Tunes

By in Genevieve, Music

Mike and I have eclectic music tastes.  This is something we both enjoy about each other, and have discovered new music we love by sharing our own collections with each other ever since we started dating.  Mike’s first couple of songs he sent my way were from The Decemberists.  At first I was not a fan, but now I would definitely say I enjoy following their work.  Mason Jennings was my first contribution to Mike’s musical life, and today he was humming one of Jennings’ latest.  Our sundry collections have lately been made even more so by the addition of two more ears in our household…very tiny ears.  In an effort to expose our daughter to a variety of music, it’s not uncommon for her to be listening to The Smashing Pumpkins, Over the Rhine, Foster the People, Bonnie Raitt, The Big Pink, or classical on MPR.  However, we also (of course) find ourselves playing a lot of children’s music now.  I like to explore new artists with our sweet babe, but I can’t help but fall back on some of my old favorites.  So, here is a little nod to my own childhood’s musical setting.

Charlotte Diamond is one of the best children’s artists I’ve ever known and each album contains a nice variety of songs. She actually has a lovely voice, though her album covers tend to make you wonder a bit. The “Diamond in the Rough” album was beloved, with favorites such as “The Hug Bug.” It just doesn’t get any more cheesy, yet somehow endearing, than this.

Raffi is a singer/songwriter who simply lives eternally unquestioned in the realm of children’s genre greats.  Who doesn’t love “Baby Beluga,” “Sodeo” or the Christmas beauty “Douglas Mountain“? (Check out that touching photo montage of who-knows’ little girl!)

Though this was produced before my time, I remember listening to “Free to Be You & Me” at Montessori preschool.  I still think it’s a great album, though so dated it’s hilarious.  Also check out this one, with a circa-1974 Michael Jackson.

Finally, there was this one guy who came to the Two Harbors Public Library to sing for us local kids, and he was pretty entertaining, I have to say.  We even bought his cassette tape after the performance.  I don’t remember his name, but I do remember this inspiring little riff.  As you can imagine, this song popped up in just about every car trip that passed the bovine type for years following.

Hopefully the baby enjoys these children’s tunes as much as her mama does.

November 8, 2011 0

Fifth Month Photos

By in Genevieve

November 2, 2011 0

Fourth Month Photos

By in Family, Genevieve

Apologies for the delay in updating the photos of Genevieve.  Here are some from her fourth month of life, including a September trip to visit Grandma Pam and Grandpa Bob.

October 24, 2011 0

The Latest

By in Genevieve, Video

So Genna’s latest thing is her entrance into the phase of “everything must go into my mouth in order for me to properly understand it.” This includes hair, books, and yes, faces: